Parents are the first person who is closest to the child and the first to teach children about many things, among others, language, motor skills, interaction, communication and many other things that exist in this world. The development of the child, shall be gradual and should always be stimulated by those closest to children as a mother, father and his family around before he stepped on the childhood that has begun to recognize its environment. Preparing children to become someone who expected his parents is not easy, to be able to achieve the goal of raising children (the greatest hope of all parents) shall we as parents can optimize the talents of children and trained as early as possible. For example: to develop children's language and speech patterns parents play an important role in it because of the language that will be understood by the child is the mother tongue first, we need to know at the beginning of lactation there is communication and interaction with the mother at each other like a child, the child will cry when he was hungry, it was an early form of communication with the child. So very extraordinary language and speech processes occur.We can not deny that all parents have their own hopes and dreams for his future in the future, parents want their children to be a doctor, a teacher even as a mother or father's successor. All of our expectations will be achieved and unattainable when we (parents) do not have a nature that is "selfish". We must realize the child is born into the world bahwasannya already have "something" in it that had been given by God, it's just that our role here is to locate, guide and optimize "something" which has brought the child from birth. We must remember there is no imposition of the will of the child, in other words when the child has to know the wider environment of the child's family environment will take whatever the wishes of the wider environment, is itself a child will develop a pattern of his life, the style of language, thought patterns match what he knew, what he believed and what he saw, and will grow in children are called "own discretion" is meant here is the desire would be the desire to have what ?, the desire to have what? and other desires. And we (the parents) when the child has stepped on stage like that do not ever impose the will of the child, there may be a more convenient way to be able to talk about what we want with the child as the child believes that we (parents) are always their need, always discuss with your child about any small problem and always ask for feedback and then make the child feel child has friends at home and outside the home.
According to Caron B. Goode (2005: 70) Tips- Tips to be a parent caregivers include:
- Every voice in the world of the child becomes part of the repertoire of their thinking, and each has an emotional connection and trigger.
- Whatever we say about or to a child from the point of view of the second or third person, the child will translate it into a first person perspective.
- The little boy think in light of age- and myself because at this early age, they are the center of their world.
- All forms of interaction, both verbal and non-verbal will first be felt by the child.
Be smart parents so that we can see a child grow without interruption, and how proud we are seeing children grow and develop in our care, because the child is a reflection of our lives, never proud children raised by nannies and other caregivers, but be proud when the boy grew up with the way we were wise. Hopefully helpful, parents, and the spirit is always smart in bringing up candidates leaders of this nation.
